We accumulate things -- it seems to be a secondary vocation for Americans. I am guilty of retaining things with little purpose, small sentimental items that I promise to someday give appropriate deference. My wife lost her uncle Mike shortly after her grandmother passed. These consecutive losses weigh on the family, each impressing their own terrible weight upon each who loved them. Mike lived in a cold-water, single room flat in Saint Paul and it was the responsibility of my wife's siblings and their spouses to help empty his apartment. 
Clearing the detritus accumulated in a lifetime is a formidable task. In surveying his space I found myself asking why far too often: why would one retain an object like this? What meaning could it have had? I searched for answers as we packed his belongings away. I found scraps of paper squirreled away with wisdom and insight scrawled upon them. Mike suffered schizophrenia -- his prose was spare, precise, and biting. His choice of language was curious and engaging. I was distracted from the business at hand -- searching for details of a hidden man. I connected with his writing, read it closely and deeply. I searched for meaning, purpose to his endeavors. As the time passed that day I began to understand that I would never really know this man, this enigma. He eluded me. Mike is a wonder. He earned accolades and merits and favor, yet what was most important to him was the love and approval of his family. In considering the dense body of work he left behind it is clear that this was his priority -- it defined him. In the end this was his lesson to me.